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Information Radiation: The Half-Life Of Online Hate Speech
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“There exists, for everyone, a sentence – a series of words – that has the power to destroy you. Another sentence exists, another series of words, that could heal you. If you’re lucky you will get the second, but you can be certain of getting the first.” ― Philip K. Dick
For 28 years, I was a journalist.
I used words as tools; sometimes as a megaphone, sometimes as a balm, all too often as an axe.
I was cogent and clever and current and cutting and conceited.
And ultimately careless.
Life has since taught me that one can’t be too careful with words.
“Of all the weapons of destruction that man could invent, the most terrible-and the most powerful-was the word. Daggers and spears left traces of blood; arrows could be seen at a distance. Poisons were detected in the end and avoided. But the word managed to destroy without leaving clues.”
― Paulo Coelho
The person who wrote about sticks and stones breaking bones but words not hurting really didn’t understand the heart.
Or human beings.
As much as we pretend – as much as the world tells us – that we are intellectual beings who happen to have emotions, I believe it’s the other way around.
We are emotional, spiritual beings that happen to have intellect.
This is not to deny or decry the astounding gift, the incredible capacity, of our brains.
It is merely recognition that, in most ways, our hearts rule – often overrule – our heads.
Indeed, there’s a Native American proverb; “Reason is the white man’s curse.”
This, again, is not meant as a dismissal of the power of intellect.
It is a salutary lesson that some things – important things – must be felt; some answers simply don’t come with reason.
“I shall tell you what I believe. I believe God is a librarian. I believe that literature is holy. It is that best part of our souls that we break off and give each other, and God has a special dispensation for it, angels to guard its making and its preservation.” ― Sarah Smith
Late in my journalistic career I was a foreign correspondent and Bureau Chief.
I saw and experienced things I wish I had not.
Decades later, I cannot un-see or un-feel those terrible events.
So the power of my words and the intensity of what I experienced are forever fused together.
And that’s my point today.
In the age of the internet, we have the power to do what I call “impulse boo” – the social media equivalent of the impulse buy.
We can reply sharply – and I mean in terms of time and tone – to virtually anything that crosses our screens on social media.
And we do.
And often we shouldn’t.
Or we should at least wait and choose our words more carefully.
For in the internet age, those words, those images – of ourselves and others – will be there for decades, if not forever.
In sheer pragmatic terms, they are the first port of call for modern bosses; the people who might – or might not – consider employing us.
Our online “footprint” is the first thing savvy employers check these days.
But more importantly, they are a portrait of ourselves, to ourselves, that we may not like.
They are a mirror to our often ugly, unfiltered inner thoughts.
And what we said so carelessly might devastate another.
“Words never fade away but echo on for eternity. Let your echo ring sweet.”
― Richelle E. Goodrich
I write this at the end of a terrible week.
Thousands of people are dead or endangered following a massive earthquake in Nepal, two young men have been executed in Indonesia, race riots are tearing apart US communities and a thousand other atrocities darken the globe.
Two of my friends have lost loved ones.
In the midst of life we are always in death.
But it reminded me that what we say to – and about – each other never mattered more.
Of all the thousands of words I’ve read about this awful week none has touched me more than those of a friend and fellow performer, Ruby Alice;
“Let’s all love that little bit harder today.”
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